Let me tell you that anything you do or say within seconds of being woke up you are not responsible for.
What do I mean? Well, let’s just say that your spouse is not fealing well. Let’s continue to say that during the night they awake with the need for care. Let’s also say that they make an attempt to solicit you providing them with assistance.
Let’s also say that you some how offend your spouse. Bummer.
I herby state that you are free from guilt and consequence for anything you say and/or do after having been waked from sleep, for the first 60 seconds.